LGBTQQIAA Inclusive Play Party

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Goddess Sadie & Her mentee boy pup Gizmo in front of the Leather Quilt

This is a Leather, Kink, Fetish, Sex Positive LGBTQQIAA* Play Party.
Celebrating boy Pup Gizmo’s long-awaited visit back to Phoenix & offering a NO COST alternative play party for the Gay Leather Community during Southwest Leather Conference weekend.

Secret Shangri-La AZ has graciously opened its doors for Gizmo and friends to have a fun safe space to explore and play.

This is a FREE & inclusive party welcoming community members of the LGBTQ+ Leather and Kink communities.

Water and soda will be provided but this is a B.Y.O.B. party.

A proper vetting process will be in place in order to help secure the safety of all participants.

We are all responsible to know the rules and abide by them.
Please bring a share food or drinks.
Please keep the address and phone number private.
Privacy and anonymity is paramount here. What you see here, what you hear here, when you leave here, let it stay here.

Gizmo will be flogging, some electro play, and Mummification, as well as some fire play (outside). Bring your fetish and kink and have fun with him!

House Rules:
1. No bare asses parked anywhere without a towel or puppy pad.
2. There is one bathroom. Everyone is asked to use the toilet SITTING DOWN. Always wash your hands and clean up any mess you make in the bathroom.
3. All smoking outside please. An area will be set aside with seating and an ashtray. Human ashtray & Smoking fetish scenes are permitted.
4. Responsible drinking is allowed for those of age. Two drink Maximum suggested.  Water and soda will be provided but this is a B.Y.O.B. party.

5. Parties are anonymous and confidential. Refrain from divulging the party address to outsiders and discussing identities and activities after the party.
6. Know the rules of the party and be responsible for following them. If the rules are not clear, ask the hostess. Inform host before doing anything that could be considered edge play. First-time attendees of Secret Shangri-La AZ should be aware that play space is a P.R.I.C.K. space (Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink).
7. No touching or playing with another’s person or property, equipment or toys without permission. If you see a toy you like and would like to examine it, ask permission before you touch it and not while they are in a scene.
8. Do not interrupt a scene. Keep talking down (below whisper level) while scenes are going on.
9. Photography requires permission from the hostess and anyone in the picture in advance. Be especially careful of faces or people in the background. Always consider their identity private and confidential.
10. Should you ask someone to play and they say no, remember “NO” really does mean “NO” #Consent is SEXY!
11. When others are playing, stay a respectful distance from the scene and remain quiet. Even if you know them, never just walk up and speak to those in a scene, unless you are previously invited to do so. Many scenes have been spoiled by “friends” loud voices or uninvited comments or suggestions. Never interrupt a scene! If you are concerned, inform the host.
12. Clean up before & after your scene equipment with cleaning supplies provided.
13. If you witness or experience something you are uncomfortable with, discuss it with the host for resolution.
14. Most of all have fun, be safe and don’t be afraid to ask to try something away from an active scene. Your host will be happy to help you.

Participants must sign a liability & informed consent waivers either via electronic pdf or in person at the party. Once the party has concluded waivers on your phone can be deleted and documented waivers will be shredded.  This is for the safety of all participants of the party.  

Have further questions? Email Goddess.SadieHawkins@gmail.com with the subject line “Gizmo Party”. Or RSVP  & contact Gizmo via Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/events/1784680321603394/

*The acronym LGBTQQIAA stands for Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Queer Questioning Intersex Asexual & Allies

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CFNM FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Lady Crimson Reign

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Welcome Special Guest Lady Crimson Reign from Den of Indomitus AZ (DOIAZ).

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two drink MAXIMUM.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-lady-crimson-reign-tickets-40866695386

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Sept 16, 2017 CFNM FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Bossy Delilah

delilah cross paddleWelcome Special Guest Bossy Delilah who came all the way from NYC via Atlanta, GA to grace us with Her presence. Might you be lucky enough to kneel in front such a notorious FemDom?

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind.

This party the Females will be & remain in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two drink MAXIMUM.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ?  Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE. NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE.

March 3, 2017 “CFNM” FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Vinyl Queen

vq-brussels2016aSecret Shangri-La AZ is pleased to announce Special Guest Vinyl Queen who came all the way from San Francisco to grace us with Her presence. Might you be lucky enough to kneel in front such a regal & infamous FemDom?

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:
1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.
2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.
3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.
4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two drink MAXIMUM.
5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.
6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).
7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.
8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

All RSVP’s must be done via Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-vinyl-queen-tickets-31498600161

Rescheduled “Slick & Shiny” A Latex Party Oct 15, 2016

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The inaugural Liquid Latex party was originally scheduled for June. Needless to say one-day wearing latex in Arizona during the month of June & you may understand why I rescheduled for October.  June in Phoenix with 110-degree heat just would not let anyone truly appreciate rubber!

Therefore it has rescheduled it for Saturday, October 15, 2016.  It will be held at Secret Shangri-La AZ  and we are certainly excited as it’s not often we get to share our fetish for latex.

This is the perfect event for latex fetishists who want to meet others who share the fetish. It’s also great for those who are interested or curious about latex but have never had a chance to experience LATEX first hand.

Imagine pure liquid latex coating your skin as you paint it on & create amazing custom outfits. We have many different colors of latex but of course, you are always welcome to bring your own to add to the creativity.

Liquid latex is often used for special effects make-up and body painting applications. There is no limit on what you can do with Liquid Latex. You are only limited by your imagination! So come join us for this especially creative event and let your imagination go wild. Liquid latex contains about one-third latex, two-thirds water so it’s nontoxic and safe to use! For those latex lovers out there, you are also invited to join us!

Bring your latex, wear your latex out in public. We just ask that you are street legal. There will also be a short informative interactive workshop on how to clean, care, condition & store your latex garments.

*IF YOU HAVE A LATEX ALLERGY OF ANY KIND DO NOT ATTEND! THIS IS A R.A.C.K.

(Risk Aware Consensual Kink) event*

THIS EVENT IS A POTLUCK & BYOB

(please drink responsibly and bring only healthy non fast food potluck food options).

TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE. NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE.

 

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December’s CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) FemDom Play Party Friday 12/19/2015

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them foot, shoulder or body massages (massage tables & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge. The males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party , and if someone says no, it means no. It should be respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be OK with wild things happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food & dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed (BYOB), however please drink responsibly.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless a adult model release is signed (model releases will be available for those interested in picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed prior to admittance.

For the safety, security and discretion of all, PLEASE NOTE THERE IS NO “PAY AT THE DOOR” for this event! NO EXCEPTIONS! Tickets can be purchased at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-clothed-female-naked-male-femdom-play-party-tickets-19789710557
$50 for single men, $5 Ladies, $30 Couples & Donation based for verified Club FEM AZ Members ADVANCE PAYMENTS ONLY, NO PAY AT THE DOOR OPTION!

SFF Party! Get your sissy on! Friday 12.26.14 & 1.2.15

We’re hosting SISSY FEST FRIDAY for all you slutty sissy slaves to your most inner desires! Local FemDoms hosting a Sissy party this Friday Jan 2, 2015.

However tickets MUST be purchased in advance via eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/get-your-sissy-on-sissy-fest-friday-event-tickets-14366062279
This will be a perfect opportunity to meet FemDoms interested in discussing your sissification, kinky feminization and continued training. This will be an amazing experience for beginners, curious first timers, and those familiar and seeking a FemDom.

All men attending will be expected to be submissive.
Respectful, well mannered, obedient submissives place inquires through e mail for details. 1. Be prepared for adult activity including but not limited to crossdressing, transformation makeup, gender variation, and other sissy slut related debaucherous fun!
2. We are all adults at the party, ALL play is safe, sane & consensual and if someone says no, it means no. It should be respected. We all have different limits.  All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be OK with wild things happening all around you.

4. Alcohol is allowed (BYOB), however please drink responsibly.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless a adult model release is signed (model releases will be available for those interested in picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed prior to admittance.

9.  There are no cash donations accepted at the door online advance confirmed purchases ONLY:  https://squareup.com/market/carib-x-consulting-group-llc/sff-party-get-your-sissy-on or via eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/get-your-sissy-on-sissy-fest-friday-event-tickets-14366062279
FAQs Are there ID requirements or an age limit to enter the event?
Must be 18+ for entry. 21+ for your BYOB to be checked in. Gov’t issued Identification will be checked! The name on the registration/ticket doesn’t match the attendee. Is that okay?
No! this is NOT okay. The same name must match the ticket as it does on the registration. NO EXCEPTIONS!
Have questions about Get Your Sissy On! “Sissy Fest Friday Event”?  Contact Moderator for further questions & concerns: secret.shangrilaphoenix@gmail.com

November’s CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) Private Party

*For the safety, security and discretion of all, PLEASE NOTE THERE IS NO “PAY AT THE DOOR” for this event! NO EXCEPTIONS! Tickets can be purchased at:

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-clothed-female-naked-male-party-tickets-14081258423

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge. 

The males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:
1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party , and if someone says no, it means no. It should be respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance.  Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be OK with wild things happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food & dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed, however please drink responsibly.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off street parking is available.  Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless a adult model release is signed (model releases will be available for those interested in picture or video taking).

7.  NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed.  ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed prior to admittance.

For the safety, security and discretion of all, PLEASE NOTE THERE IS NO “PAY AT THE DOOR” for this event! NO EXCEPTIONS! Tickets can be purchased at:

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-clothed-female-naked-male-party-tickets-14081258423