Domina Devlynn DeSade visits Secret Shangri-La AZ December 4 -10, 2018


What better way to close out 2018 than to have Mistress Devlynn DeSade – the Queen of cruel visiting Secret Shangri-La AZ!  This is Her first visit to Arizona & I am beyond elated!

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Mistress Devlynn DeSade is a lifestyle and professional Domina hailing from Cincinnati, Ohio, where She hosts several high protocol FemDom Goddess evenings for exploration and education in the FemDom Lifestyle.  She is the owner of DeSade Academy, a private Victorian Style dungeon near downtown Cincinnati, hosting FemDom Art events and classes for 8 years.  Mistress DeSade is also an esteemed Priestess of the Order of Indomitus, a fully immersive 24/7 FemDom Weekend in Florida that hearkens back to the real FemDom majesty of the Other World Kingdom.


Her interests and gifts in the realm of BDSM include shibari, electro, medical, fireplay, knifeplay, corporal, discipline, real slave training, real hypnosis, fetish exploration, and sensory overload.  Regardless of whether She is wielding a whip, a remote control, or her words… Her power and control over a submissive plaything is deliciously addictive.


It’s not often that Phoenix has skilled Dominatrices visit, therefore I wouldn’t snooze on this opportunity!  I certainly am looking forward to double Domination sessions & getting some quality time in with Her during this tour. We co-top very well together & have been for several years!  I always enjoy the deviant debauchery in Her city, now it’s time I get to share the Valley of the Sun with Her!  Mistress Devlynn is also a certified hypnotherapist & Secret Shangri-La AZ definitely doesn’t get to pull out our Nova Pro 100 hypnosis machine nearly enough! NOW IS THAT PERFECT TIME!


Mistress Devlynn will also be available for private one-on-one sessions as well at Secret Shangri-La AZ by appointment and deposit only!  Time is always a valuable commodity when a Professional Dominatrix is on tour.  So you out there reading this; show some respect and expect nothing if you aren’t willing to give some honor & appreciation for Her time.  I know you want to be a fly on the wall, BUT since we all know that is something you must earn– put your money where your mouth is! Allow your actions to speak for themselves; that’s not a hard task.  Like I always say; you only get one opportunity to make a first impression….


Mistress Devlynn has been voted Cincinnati’s best Dominatrix, DomCon LA 2014 Guest of Honor, & DomCon New Orleans 2016 Guest of Honor.

For more information about Her, how you can contact Her directly & links to learn more about Her visit:

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Honorifics & how to address a FemDom PROPERLY

I have found Myself correcting men damn near daily when conversing with Me over the past several weeks.
I personally get offended when an “s type” is on autopilot when addressing Me as Mistress Sadie. That’s not My name! It NEVER has been an honorific I have used publicly and VERY few have ever had the honor of using “Mistress” when addressing Me.

So let Me reiterate My preferred honorific is:
Goddess Sadie; I became an Ordained Minister in 2006 and have been an initiate into the Goddess path soon thereafter.

IF you are not comfortable with “Goddess” you probably should NOT be serving Me. As ALL of My Power Exchange is deeply rooted into My Spiritual practice. Albeit known or unknown to the person, I am exchanging power and energy with.

The respectful options when speaking with Me are:
1. Ms. Hawkins
2. Ms. Sadie
3. Madam
4. Ma’am
5. Ms.

Mistress is reserved for those that either:
1. have the honor of being collared by Me
(either in a Pro Domme session or lifestyle FLR FemDom/male “s type” situation)
2. Have a significant other and the significant other does NOT know about Me & is unaware of our relationship. Therefore making Me the “Mistress”

When in doubt, simply ASK a FemDom what is Her preferred honorific.

Dec 11, 2015 “THE INS & OUTS OF ENEMA PLAY” workshop

Maintaining the integrity of Risk Aware Consensual Kinky (RACK) Enema Play,  I will cover one very dirty subject: ENEMAS!

Enema play is one of the most diversely perverted fetishes of edge play out there. I will discuss the quality of various equipment, what household grocery items can be safely used in enema play. Fun twists you can add to make it more exciting or therapeutic, I will also cover some advanced & controversial topics from coffee & various herbal enemas as well as forced intoxication.

Tickets MUST be purchased online via eventbrite at: