LGBTQQIAA Inclusive Play Party

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Goddess Sadie & Her mentee boy pup Gizmo in front of the Leather Quilt

This is a Leather, Kink, Fetish, Sex Positive LGBTQQIAA* Play Party.
Celebrating boy Pup Gizmo’s long-awaited visit back to Phoenix & offering a NO COST alternative play party for the Gay Leather Community during Southwest Leather Conference weekend.

Secret Shangri-La AZ has graciously opened its doors for Gizmo and friends to have a fun safe space to explore and play.

This is a FREE & inclusive party welcoming community members of the LGBTQ+ Leather and Kink communities.

Water and soda will be provided but this is a B.Y.O.B. party.

A proper vetting process will be in place in order to help secure the safety of all participants.

We are all responsible to know the rules and abide by them.
Please bring a share food or drinks.
Please keep the address and phone number private.
Privacy and anonymity is paramount here. What you see here, what you hear here, when you leave here, let it stay here.

Gizmo will be flogging, some electro play, and Mummification, as well as some fire play (outside). Bring your fetish and kink and have fun with him!

House Rules:
1. No bare asses parked anywhere without a towel or puppy pad.
2. There is one bathroom. Everyone is asked to use the toilet SITTING DOWN. Always wash your hands and clean up any mess you make in the bathroom.
3. All smoking outside please. An area will be set aside with seating and an ashtray. Human ashtray & Smoking fetish scenes are permitted.
4. Responsible drinking is allowed for those of age. Two drink Maximum suggested.  Water and soda will be provided but this is a B.Y.O.B. party.

5. Parties are anonymous and confidential. Refrain from divulging the party address to outsiders and discussing identities and activities after the party.
6. Know the rules of the party and be responsible for following them. If the rules are not clear, ask the hostess. Inform host before doing anything that could be considered edge play. First-time attendees of Secret Shangri-La AZ should be aware that play space is a P.R.I.C.K. space (Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink).
7. No touching or playing with another’s person or property, equipment or toys without permission. If you see a toy you like and would like to examine it, ask permission before you touch it and not while they are in a scene.
8. Do not interrupt a scene. Keep talking down (below whisper level) while scenes are going on.
9. Photography requires permission from the hostess and anyone in the picture in advance. Be especially careful of faces or people in the background. Always consider their identity private and confidential.
10. Should you ask someone to play and they say no, remember “NO” really does mean “NO” #Consent is SEXY!
11. When others are playing, stay a respectful distance from the scene and remain quiet. Even if you know them, never just walk up and speak to those in a scene, unless you are previously invited to do so. Many scenes have been spoiled by “friends” loud voices or uninvited comments or suggestions. Never interrupt a scene! If you are concerned, inform the host.
12. Clean up before & after your scene equipment with cleaning supplies provided.
13. If you witness or experience something you are uncomfortable with, discuss it with the host for resolution.
14. Most of all have fun, be safe and don’t be afraid to ask to try something away from an active scene. Your host will be happy to help you.

Participants must sign a liability & informed consent waivers either via electronic pdf or in person at the party. Once the party has concluded waivers on your phone can be deleted and documented waivers will be shredded.  This is for the safety of all participants of the party.  

Have further questions? Email Goddess.SadieHawkins@gmail.com with the subject line “Gizmo Party”. Or RSVP  & contact Gizmo via Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/events/1784680321603394/

*The acronym LGBTQQIAA stands for Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Queer Questioning Intersex Asexual & Allies

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CFNM FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Lady Crimson Reign

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Welcome Special Guest Lady Crimson Reign from Den of Indomitus AZ (DOIAZ).

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two drink MAXIMUM.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-lady-crimson-reign-tickets-40866695386

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The Notorious Bossy Delilah visits Secret Shangri-La AZ September 15 -19, 2017

 

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A New York City native with Puerto Rican & Irani / Pakistani roots.  Based in Atlanta Georgia since Oct 2013 with frequent travels to; NYC, LA, FL, DC.

Bossy Delilah is a lifelong Dominatrix of incomparable caliber. Her 19+ years of practice in humiliation, degradation and mind fuckery have given Her keen insight into the psyche of the submissive male.  She believes that inside every male is a deeply seated inclination to serve and Obey that can be cultivated and manipulated by the ideal Dominatrix.  She is the catalyst that you seek.

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Whether you are about to take your first steps into submission, or if you are a man who knows kneeling well, Her door is open to those who seek Her unique brand of Control. Experience what it is like to be ruled by a True Queen. Surrender and embrace the suffering. To say yes to whatever She has in store for you.

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Transformation is your destination.

Delilah head shotFor more information about Her and how you can contact Her directly visit: 

https://www.theonlydelilah.com/

https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/16207

 

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Get this video clip at CaribbeanDominatrix.com

 

Sept 16, 2017 CFNM FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Bossy Delilah

delilah cross paddleWelcome Special Guest Bossy Delilah who came all the way from NYC via Atlanta, GA to grace us with Her presence. Might you be lucky enough to kneel in front such a notorious FemDom?

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind.

This party the Females will be & remain in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two drink MAXIMUM.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ?  Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE. NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE.

Secret Shangri-La AZ news updates

So I am sure everyone has been wondering why things have been so quiet with Secret Shangri-La AZ lately?  Well, it’s the summer and who wouldn’t want to be at the beach and away from the desert??

While Head Madame; Goddess Sadie Hawkins has been enjoying the salt water of the Atlantic, Her stable of devoted submissives & a few FemDom Leather Sisters have been utilizing the dungeon & maintaining the energy of the luscious sadomasochism every visitor has grown to enjoy.

We will be setting a date soon (sometime in September) for another infamous CFNM FemDom Play party as well to host several FemDom Events.  Stay tuned to this blog to see the line up of celebrity Guest Mistresses.

Other events for 2017 include; a strap on gang bang, foot fetish party, snuggle party, a brunch & beat, numerous BDSM, Kink, Fetish education workshops.

Need a kink fix before our next event? Check out Head Mistress’ growing fetish clip listings:

https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/19696/goddess-sadie-hawkins-private-clips

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https://iwantclips.com/store/2114/Goddess-Sadie

If you are interested in co-starring in a fetish clip with Goddess Sadie; please submit & video supplicant form: http://form.jotform.us/form/42816212769156?

Have a question, comment or concern? Email:  secret.shangrilaphoenix@gmail.com 

 

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Mistress Alana Aradia of NYC visits Secret Shangri-La AZ March 15 -22, 2017

alana-aradia-holding-cageAt an early age, She knew men would surrender all control just to be near Me. She realized a certain “type” of man would fall at Her feet to do and give just about anything to please Me, and to stay in Her good grace. Taking advantage of Her gifts of beauty and raw sensual power, She used these men for Her own personal gain. She has the power to make men submit to Her and do Her bidding. She is the kind of woman who will have you giving Her your hard earned money just to allow you to lick the soles of Her stilettos…if you’re lucky. Her subtlety and confidence allow experienced submissive men to recognize and appreciate the qualities of Her true dominant power. Just being in Her presence will have you wanting more, teasing you into submission. Her beautiful long blonde hair and gorgeous eyes will hypnotize you. Submission to Her is the only option…
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Her Interests:

  • Corporal Punishment
  • Tickling
  • Financial Domination
  • OTK
  • Flogging
  • Spanking
  • Spitting
  • Face Slapping
  • Bondage
  • Humiliation
  • Prolonged and Agonizing Tease and Denial
  • CBT
  • Sissy Play
  • Role Play
  • Foot Worship
  • Human Ashtray
  • Ball Busting
  • Dinner Domination
  • ABDL

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For more information about Her, how you can contact Her directly & links to learn more about Her visit:

Mistress Vinyl Queen visits Secret Shangri-La AZ March 2- 5, 2017

vinyl-queen-standing-blk-leather-skirtMistress Vinyl Queen has been a practicing Pro Domme for the past 20 years. During her career, she has diligently worked on the craft of BDSM. A few of VQ’s favorite activities are corporal punishment, discipline, nipple torture, cock & ball torture, and foot-related domination (worship and trampling). She has many more interests, so it would behoove potential applicants to research her website for additional information. A versatile player, she prides herself on creating intelligent sessions. A true Femdom, she makes her personal interests a priority. Your pleasure will be derived from pleasing her.

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Vinyl Queen also has a vast fetish wardrobe that includes leather, latex, fully-fashioned hosiery, and of course PVC.
For more information about Her and how you can contact Her directly visit: http://www.vinylqueen.com/
Booking inquiries: MistressVinylQueen@gmail.com.

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Alexandra Sadista visits Secret Shangri-La AZ Feb 11 – 15, 2017

Alex_Promo4_watermark.jpgAlexandra Sadista is a skilled Dominatrix who is well-versed in the art of Sadomasochism, who is based Chicago, IL. With her irrefutable dominant nature and her powers of persuasion, you will find yourself doing the unthinkable in order to gain her approval. 

Her first love is Sadism. The feeling of elation She experiences through your suffering and distress is comparable to no other.  Her second love is… all things kink! Bondage of every variety (light to heavy to predicament), mummification, sensory play, corporal punishment, medical, Cock & Ball Torture, Nipple Tortue,  FTT, and select types of worship are activities she highly enjoys.  

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Do not feel limited or intimidated by her kinks and fetishes. Genuine foot worshippers, sensual players, and Goddess pamperers hold a special place in her dark heart. It’s not always about pain. Respectfully suggest a scenario for her to consider, and she will respond if it piques her interest. 

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For more information about Her, how you can contact Her directly & links to learn more about Her visit:   www.Iamyourfetish.com
Booking inquiries: 312-203-4535 / Iamyourfetish@gmail.com

She accepts inquiries via phone or email, but email is always the preferred method of contact. Be sure to include your name, interests, and the day and time you wish to book a session.

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March 3, 2017 “CFNM” FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Vinyl Queen

vq-brussels2016aSecret Shangri-La AZ is pleased to announce Special Guest Vinyl Queen who came all the way from San Francisco to grace us with Her presence. Might you be lucky enough to kneel in front such a regal & infamous FemDom?

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:
1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.
2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.
3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.
4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two drink MAXIMUM.
5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.
6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).
7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.
8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

All RSVP’s must be done via Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-vinyl-queen-tickets-31498600161

Rescheduled “Slick & Shiny” A Latex Party Oct 15, 2016

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The inaugural Liquid Latex party was originally scheduled for June. Needless to say one-day wearing latex in Arizona during the month of June & you may understand why I rescheduled for October.  June in Phoenix with 110-degree heat just would not let anyone truly appreciate rubber!

Therefore it has rescheduled it for Saturday, October 15, 2016.  It will be held at Secret Shangri-La AZ  and we are certainly excited as it’s not often we get to share our fetish for latex.

This is the perfect event for latex fetishists who want to meet others who share the fetish. It’s also great for those who are interested or curious about latex but have never had a chance to experience LATEX first hand.

Imagine pure liquid latex coating your skin as you paint it on & create amazing custom outfits. We have many different colors of latex but of course, you are always welcome to bring your own to add to the creativity.

Liquid latex is often used for special effects make-up and body painting applications. There is no limit on what you can do with Liquid Latex. You are only limited by your imagination! So come join us for this especially creative event and let your imagination go wild. Liquid latex contains about one-third latex, two-thirds water so it’s nontoxic and safe to use! For those latex lovers out there, you are also invited to join us!

Bring your latex, wear your latex out in public. We just ask that you are street legal. There will also be a short informative interactive workshop on how to clean, care, condition & store your latex garments.

*IF YOU HAVE A LATEX ALLERGY OF ANY KIND DO NOT ATTEND! THIS IS A R.A.C.K.

(Risk Aware Consensual Kink) event*

THIS EVENT IS A POTLUCK & BYOB

(please drink responsibly and bring only healthy non fast food potluck food options).

TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE. NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE.

 

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