Saturday, Dec 8, 2018 CFNM FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Mistress Devlynn DeSade

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Welcome Special Guest Mistress Devlynn DeSade who’s visiting us all the way from Cincinnati, OH to grace us with Her presence & incomparable FemDom style. Might you be lucky enough to kneel in front such an infamous Female Dominant? Mistress Devlynn is the Creator of Ohio’s largest & longest running annual fetish party; The Cincinnati Bondage Ball.

At this CFNM FemDom Play Party, the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the Female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be comfortable with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.  Vegetarian dishes are strongly encouraged!

4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two-drink MAXIMUM.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE:  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-mistress-devlynn-desade-tickets-52518255516

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Domina Devlynn DeSade visits Secret Shangri-La AZ December 4 -10, 2018

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What better way to close out 2018 than to have Mistress Devlynn DeSade – the Queen of cruel visiting Secret Shangri-La AZ!  This is Her first visit to Arizona & I am beyond elated!

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Mistress Devlynn DeSade is a lifestyle and professional Domina hailing from Cincinnati, Ohio, where She hosts several high protocol FemDom Goddess evenings for exploration and education in the FemDom Lifestyle.  She is the owner of DeSade Academy, a private Victorian Style dungeon near downtown Cincinnati, hosting FemDom Art events and classes for 8 years.  Mistress DeSade is also an esteemed Priestess of the Order of Indomitus, a fully immersive 24/7 FemDom Weekend in Florida that hearkens back to the real FemDom majesty of the Other World Kingdom.

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Her interests and gifts in the realm of BDSM include shibari, electro, medical, fireplay, knifeplay, corporal, discipline, real slave training, real hypnosis, fetish exploration, and sensory overload.  Regardless of whether She is wielding a whip, a remote control, or her words… Her power and control over a submissive plaything is deliciously addictive.

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It’s not often that Phoenix has skilled Dominatrices visit, therefore I wouldn’t snooze on this opportunity!  I certainly am looking forward to double Domination sessions & getting some quality time in with Her during this tour. We co-top very well together & have been for several years!  I always enjoy the deviant debauchery in Her city, now it’s time I get to share the Valley of the Sun with Her!  Mistress Devlynn is also a certified hypnotherapist & Secret Shangri-La AZ definitely doesn’t get to pull out our Nova Pro 100 hypnosis machine nearly enough! NOW IS THAT PERFECT TIME!

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Mistress Devlynn will also be available for private one-on-one sessions as well at Secret Shangri-La AZ by appointment and deposit only!  Time is always a valuable commodity when a Professional Dominatrix is on tour.  So you out there reading this; show some respect and expect nothing if you aren’t willing to give some honor & appreciation for Her time.  I know you want to be a fly on the wall, BUT since we all know that is something you must earn– put your money where your mouth is! Allow your actions to speak for themselves; that’s not a hard task.  Like I always say; you only get one opportunity to make a first impression….

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Mistress Devlynn has been voted Cincinnati’s best Dominatrix, DomCon LA 2014 Guest of Honor, & DomCon New Orleans 2016 Guest of Honor.

For more information about Her, how you can contact Her directly & links to learn more about Her visit:

http://www.devlynndesade.com/

http://www.cincinnatidominatrix.com/

https://www.youtube.com/user/DevlynnDeSade/videos

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Honorifics & how to address a FemDom PROPERLY

I have found Myself correcting men damn near daily when conversing with Me over the past several weeks.
MISTRESS IS NOT THE GO TO HONORIFIC for every FemDom!
I personally get offended when an “s type” is on autopilot when addressing Me as Mistress Sadie. That’s not My name! It NEVER has been an honorific I have used publicly and VERY few have ever had the honor of using “Mistress” when addressing Me.

So let Me reiterate My preferred honorific is:
GODDESS
Goddess Sadie; I became an Ordained Minister in 2006 and have been an initiate into the Goddess path soon thereafter.

IF you are not comfortable with “Goddess” you probably should NOT be serving Me. As ALL of My Power Exchange is deeply rooted into My Spiritual practice. Albeit known or unknown to the person, I am exchanging power and energy with.

The respectful options when speaking with Me are:
1. Ms. Hawkins
2. Ms. Sadie
3. Madam
4. Ma’am
5. Ms.

Mistress is reserved for those that either:
1. have the honor of being collared by Me
(either in a Pro Domme session or lifestyle FLR FemDom/male “s type” situation)
2. Have a significant other and the significant other does NOT know about Me & is unaware of our relationship. Therefore making Me the “Mistress”

When in doubt, simply ASK a FemDom what is Her preferred honorific.

Secret Shangri-La AZ is a proud sponsor for AZ Leather Run 2018!

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Secret Shangri-La AZ is humbled and honored to be the 2018 Queer play space sponsor for the 2nd annual Arizona Leather Run

What is a Leather Run you ask???
A “Run” is a long-standing tradition in the Leather community where several statewide Leather, MC Clubs, Leather organizations, bars, gathered in partnership and family, yearly, to create a Run.
Having a space for kinksters to play & express themselves in a safe environment is paramount during a weekend where Leather folk from all across Arizona come together for just one weekend a year!

The local Leather Community Leaders are preserving the tradition and ritual of A “Leather Run”.  Leather in Arizona is here and STRONGER than ever!

United, WE offer ALL to join the family celebrating our lifestyle with the ARIZONA LEATHER RUN 2018-LEATHER TOGETHER!

Come out September 6th – 9th and be part of Leather tradition while making your own historical mark within the Leather, BDSM, Fetish, Kink community!

Please note that although Secret Shangri-La AZ is the hosting a play party for the AZ Leather Run; the standard yet stringent vetting protocol will still be strictly enforced.
You MUST have your registration badge in order to attend the play party & receive your final RSVP confirmation. Tickets can be purchased via Eventbrite:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/queer-play-party-for-az-leather-run-tickets-49689536742

Questions??? Email Ms. Hawkins at secret.shangrilaphoenix@gmail.com  with “AZ Leather Run” in the subject line.

 

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Secret Shangri-La AZ seeking strong backs & helping hands for 12hr Storage / Renovation packing party

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Secret Shangri-La AZ is getting a major renovation the next few weeks! New windows, new doors, new closets, new kitchen, new appliances, new HVAC, new bathroom, and more NEW NEW NEW!

What does that mean for you:

1. Get your session scheduled, rescheduled, or rental booked within the next 90 hours.

2. Assist in getting the dungeon disassembled, packed up, stored & out of harms way during renovations.

3. Get FemDom Lifestyle (FLR) interaction with Myself & several of My FemDom Friends who are coming over to assist with the packing, as well as keeping you boys focused on the tasks at hand.

4. Don’t have a strong back or are unavailable yet still want to show your support while Secret Shangri-La AZ is closed for the month of May? Send contributions to https://cash.me/$SHawkins 

If A/anyone is available Sunday, May 6th 11 am – Monday, May 7th 4 pm, I could utilize Y/you in a MAJOR way!

If any of this spoke to Y/you feel free to inbox Me or call Me directly to discuss your contribution.

Albeit a fellow FemDom to talk, confide in & assist in packing OR a submissive who is willing to sweat a little, has a strong back, self-confident in communication & negotiation, please reach Me at Goddess.SadieHawkins@gmail.com with “renovation service” in the subject line.

With Love & Gratitude,

Goddess Sadie Hawkins

Owner & Head Madam of Secret Shangri-La AZ

The infamous Vinyl Queen returns to Secret Shangri-La AZ as Special Guest for Feb 24, 2018 CFNM FemDom Play Party

vq-brussels2016aSecret Shangri-La AZ is pleased to announce the return visit of Special Guest Vinyl Queen who had so much fun during Her visit last March that She scheduled this trip back to Phoenix months ago.  YES, She came all the way from San Francisco AGAIN to grace us with Her presence.  Last years CFNM play party where She was the Special guest was at full capacity! I am sure this play party will be waitlisted so get your RSVP in early.

Vinyl Queen will be visiting Secret Shangri-La AZ Feb 23rd – 25th and will be available for one-on-one sessions, double sessions, video shoots, photo shoots, cam sessions, FemDom consults & more!

Mistress Vinyl Queen has been a practicing Pro Domme for the past 20 years. During her career, she has diligently worked on the craft of BDSM. A few of VQ’s favorite activities are corporal punishment, discipline, nipple torture, cock & ball torture, and foot-related domination (worship and trampling). She has many more interests so it would behoove potential applicants to research her website for additional information. A versatile player, she prides herself on creating intelligent sessions. A true Femdom, she makes her personal interests a priority. Your pleasure will be derived from pleasing her.

Vinyl Queen also has a vast fetish wardrobe that includes leather, latex, fully-fashioned hosiery, and of course PVC. Since She is flying & has limited luggage space, it is best that you contact Her directly prior to Her departure re: any wardrobe requests you may have.
For more information about Her and how you can serve/submit to Her visit: http://www.vinylqueen.com/
Booking inquiries: MistressVinylQueen@gmail.com.
Regarding the CFNM FemDom Play party; refamiliarize yourself with party protocol & what you can expect:

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:
1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.
2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.
3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.
4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two-drink MAXIMUM.
5. This party is held in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.
6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).
7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.
8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

All RSVP’s must be done via Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-vinyl-queen-tickets-42896641008

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LGBTQQIAA Inclusive Play Party

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Goddess Sadie & Her mentee boy pup Gizmo in front of the Leather Quilt

This is a Leather, Kink, Fetish, Sex Positive LGBTQQIAA* Play Party.
Celebrating boy Pup Gizmo’s long-awaited visit back to Phoenix & offering a NO COST alternative play party for the Gay Leather Community during Southwest Leather Conference weekend.

Secret Shangri-La AZ has graciously opened its doors for Gizmo and friends to have a fun safe space to explore and play.

This is a FREE & inclusive party welcoming community members of the LGBTQ+ Leather and Kink communities.

Water and soda will be provided but this is a B.Y.O.B. party.

A proper vetting process will be in place in order to help secure the safety of all participants.

We are all responsible to know the rules and abide by them.
Please bring a share food or drinks.
Please keep the address and phone number private.
Privacy and anonymity is paramount here. What you see here, what you hear here, when you leave here, let it stay here.

Gizmo will be flogging, some electro play, and Mummification, as well as some fire play (outside). Bring your fetish and kink and have fun with him!

House Rules:
1. No bare asses parked anywhere without a towel or puppy pad.
2. There is one bathroom. Everyone is asked to use the toilet SITTING DOWN. Always wash your hands and clean up any mess you make in the bathroom.
3. All smoking outside please. An area will be set aside with seating and an ashtray. Human ashtray & Smoking fetish scenes are permitted.
4. Responsible drinking is allowed for those of age. Two drink Maximum suggested.  Water and soda will be provided but this is a B.Y.O.B. party.

5. Parties are anonymous and confidential. Refrain from divulging the party address to outsiders and discussing identities and activities after the party.
6. Know the rules of the party and be responsible for following them. If the rules are not clear, ask the hostess. Inform host before doing anything that could be considered edge play. First-time attendees of Secret Shangri-La AZ should be aware that play space is a P.R.I.C.K. space (Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink).
7. No touching or playing with another’s person or property, equipment or toys without permission. If you see a toy you like and would like to examine it, ask permission before you touch it and not while they are in a scene.
8. Do not interrupt a scene. Keep talking down (below whisper level) while scenes are going on.
9. Photography requires permission from the hostess and anyone in the picture in advance. Be especially careful of faces or people in the background. Always consider their identity private and confidential.
10. Should you ask someone to play and they say no, remember “NO” really does mean “NO” #Consent is SEXY!
11. When others are playing, stay a respectful distance from the scene and remain quiet. Even if you know them, never just walk up and speak to those in a scene, unless you are previously invited to do so. Many scenes have been spoiled by “friends” loud voices or uninvited comments or suggestions. Never interrupt a scene! If you are concerned, inform the host.
12. Clean up before & after your scene equipment with cleaning supplies provided.
13. If you witness or experience something you are uncomfortable with, discuss it with the host for resolution.
14. Most of all have fun, be safe and don’t be afraid to ask to try something away from an active scene. Your host will be happy to help you.

Participants must sign a liability & informed consent waivers either via electronic pdf or in person at the party. Once the party has concluded waivers on your phone can be deleted and documented waivers will be shredded.  This is for the safety of all participants of the party.  

Have further questions? Email Goddess.SadieHawkins@gmail.com with the subject line “Gizmo Party”. Or RSVP  & contact Gizmo via Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/events/1784680321603394/

*The acronym LGBTQQIAA stands for Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Queer Questioning Intersex Asexual & Allies

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CFNM FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Lady Crimson Reign

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Welcome Special Guest Lady Crimson Reign from Den of Indomitus AZ (DOIAZ).

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two drink MAXIMUM.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-lady-crimson-reign-tickets-40866695386

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The Notorious Bossy Delilah visits Secret Shangri-La AZ September 15 -19, 2017

 

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A New York City native with Puerto Rican & Irani / Pakistani roots.  Based in Atlanta Georgia since Oct 2013 with frequent travels to; NYC, LA, FL, DC.

Bossy Delilah is a lifelong Dominatrix of incomparable caliber. Her 19+ years of practice in humiliation, degradation and mind fuckery have given Her keen insight into the psyche of the submissive male.  She believes that inside every male is a deeply seated inclination to serve and Obey that can be cultivated and manipulated by the ideal Dominatrix.  She is the catalyst that you seek.

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Whether you are about to take your first steps into submission, or if you are a man who knows kneeling well, Her door is open to those who seek Her unique brand of Control. Experience what it is like to be ruled by a True Queen. Surrender and embrace the suffering. To say yes to whatever She has in store for you.

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Transformation is your destination.

Delilah head shotFor more information about Her and how you can contact Her directly visit: 

https://www.theonlydelilah.com/

https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/16207

 

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Sept 16, 2017 CFNM FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Bossy Delilah

delilah cross paddleWelcome Special Guest Bossy Delilah who came all the way from NYC via Atlanta, GA to grace us with Her presence. Might you be lucky enough to kneel in front such a notorious FemDom?

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind.

This party the Females will be & remain in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two drink MAXIMUM.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ?  Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE. NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE.