Saturday, Dec 8, 2018 CFNM FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Mistress Devlynn DeSade

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Welcome Special Guest Mistress Devlynn DeSade who’s visiting us all the way from Cincinnati, OH to grace us with Her presence & incomparable FemDom style. Might you be lucky enough to kneel in front such an infamous Female Dominant? Mistress Devlynn is the Creator of Ohio’s largest & longest running annual fetish party; The Cincinnati Bondage Ball.

At this CFNM FemDom Play Party, the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the Female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be comfortable with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.  Vegetarian dishes are strongly encouraged!

4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two-drink MAXIMUM.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE:  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-mistress-devlynn-desade-tickets-52518255516

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Domina Devlynn DeSade visits Secret Shangri-La AZ December 4 -10, 2018

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What better way to close out 2018 than to have Mistress Devlynn DeSade – the Queen of cruel visiting Secret Shangri-La AZ!  This is Her first visit to Arizona & I am beyond elated!

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Mistress Devlynn DeSade is a lifestyle and professional Domina hailing from Cincinnati, Ohio, where She hosts several high protocol FemDom Goddess evenings for exploration and education in the FemDom Lifestyle.  She is the owner of DeSade Academy, a private Victorian Style dungeon near downtown Cincinnati, hosting FemDom Art events and classes for 8 years.  Mistress DeSade is also an esteemed Priestess of the Order of Indomitus, a fully immersive 24/7 FemDom Weekend in Florida that hearkens back to the real FemDom majesty of the Other World Kingdom.

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Her interests and gifts in the realm of BDSM include shibari, electro, medical, fireplay, knifeplay, corporal, discipline, real slave training, real hypnosis, fetish exploration, and sensory overload.  Regardless of whether She is wielding a whip, a remote control, or her words… Her power and control over a submissive plaything is deliciously addictive.

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It’s not often that Phoenix has skilled Dominatrices visit, therefore I wouldn’t snooze on this opportunity!  I certainly am looking forward to double Domination sessions & getting some quality time in with Her during this tour. We co-top very well together & have been for several years!  I always enjoy the deviant debauchery in Her city, now it’s time I get to share the Valley of the Sun with Her!  Mistress Devlynn is also a certified hypnotherapist & Secret Shangri-La AZ definitely doesn’t get to pull out our Nova Pro 100 hypnosis machine nearly enough! NOW IS THAT PERFECT TIME!

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Mistress Devlynn will also be available for private one-on-one sessions as well at Secret Shangri-La AZ by appointment and deposit only!  Time is always a valuable commodity when a Professional Dominatrix is on tour.  So you out there reading this; show some respect and expect nothing if you aren’t willing to give some honor & appreciation for Her time.  I know you want to be a fly on the wall, BUT since we all know that is something you must earn– put your money where your mouth is! Allow your actions to speak for themselves; that’s not a hard task.  Like I always say; you only get one opportunity to make a first impression….

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Mistress Devlynn has been voted Cincinnati’s best Dominatrix, DomCon LA 2014 Guest of Honor, & DomCon New Orleans 2016 Guest of Honor.

For more information about Her, how you can contact Her directly & links to learn more about Her visit:

http://www.devlynndesade.com/

http://www.cincinnatidominatrix.com/

https://www.youtube.com/user/DevlynnDeSade/videos

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Honorifics & how to address a FemDom PROPERLY

I have found Myself correcting men damn near daily when conversing with Me over the past several weeks.
MISTRESS IS NOT THE GO TO HONORIFIC for every FemDom!
I personally get offended when an “s type” is on autopilot when addressing Me as Mistress Sadie. That’s not My name! It NEVER has been an honorific I have used publicly and VERY few have ever had the honor of using “Mistress” when addressing Me.

So let Me reiterate My preferred honorific is:
GODDESS
Goddess Sadie; I became an Ordained Minister in 2006 and have been an initiate into the Goddess path soon thereafter.

IF you are not comfortable with “Goddess” you probably should NOT be serving Me. As ALL of My Power Exchange is deeply rooted into My Spiritual practice. Albeit known or unknown to the person, I am exchanging power and energy with.

The respectful options when speaking with Me are:
1. Ms. Hawkins
2. Ms. Sadie
3. Madam
4. Ma’am
5. Ms.

Mistress is reserved for those that either:
1. have the honor of being collared by Me
(either in a Pro Domme session or lifestyle FLR FemDom/male “s type” situation)
2. Have a significant other and the significant other does NOT know about Me & is unaware of our relationship. Therefore making Me the “Mistress”

When in doubt, simply ASK a FemDom what is Her preferred honorific.

The infamous Vinyl Queen returns to Secret Shangri-La AZ as Special Guest for Feb 24, 2018 CFNM FemDom Play Party

vq-brussels2016aSecret Shangri-La AZ is pleased to announce the return visit of Special Guest Vinyl Queen who had so much fun during Her visit last March that She scheduled this trip back to Phoenix months ago.  YES, She came all the way from San Francisco AGAIN to grace us with Her presence.  Last years CFNM play party where She was the Special guest was at full capacity! I am sure this play party will be waitlisted so get your RSVP in early.

Vinyl Queen will be visiting Secret Shangri-La AZ Feb 23rd – 25th and will be available for one-on-one sessions, double sessions, video shoots, photo shoots, cam sessions, FemDom consults & more!

Mistress Vinyl Queen has been a practicing Pro Domme for the past 20 years. During her career, she has diligently worked on the craft of BDSM. A few of VQ’s favorite activities are corporal punishment, discipline, nipple torture, cock & ball torture, and foot-related domination (worship and trampling). She has many more interests so it would behoove potential applicants to research her website for additional information. A versatile player, she prides herself on creating intelligent sessions. A true Femdom, she makes her personal interests a priority. Your pleasure will be derived from pleasing her.

Vinyl Queen also has a vast fetish wardrobe that includes leather, latex, fully-fashioned hosiery, and of course PVC. Since She is flying & has limited luggage space, it is best that you contact Her directly prior to Her departure re: any wardrobe requests you may have.
For more information about Her and how you can serve/submit to Her visit: http://www.vinylqueen.com/
Booking inquiries: MistressVinylQueen@gmail.com.
Regarding the CFNM FemDom Play party; refamiliarize yourself with party protocol & what you can expect:

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:
1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.
2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.
3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.
4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two-drink MAXIMUM.
5. This party is held in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.
6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).
7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.
8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

All RSVP’s must be done via Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-vinyl-queen-tickets-42896641008

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CFNM FemDom Play Party with Special Guest; Lady Crimson Reign

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Welcome Special Guest Lady Crimson Reign from Den of Indomitus AZ (DOIAZ).

At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

Just like at ALL the CFNM FemDom Play parties at Secret Shangri-La AZ, the males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party, and if someone says no, it means NO. It should be always respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be okay with wild & kinky activities happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed, however, please drink responsibly. It is preferred by the host that guests adhere to a two drink MAXIMUM.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however, all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model release forms will be available for those interested in a picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.

8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ? Please read the blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR. This blog announcement simply serves as a social media site marketing tool to promote the event.
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED VIA EVENTBRITE: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-femdom-play-party-with-special-guest-lady-crimson-reign-tickets-40866695386

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Alexandra Sadista visits Secret Shangri-La AZ Feb 11 – 15, 2017

Alex_Promo4_watermark.jpgAlexandra Sadista is a skilled Dominatrix who is well-versed in the art of Sadomasochism, who is based Chicago, IL. With her irrefutable dominant nature and her powers of persuasion, you will find yourself doing the unthinkable in order to gain her approval. 

Her first love is Sadism. The feeling of elation She experiences through your suffering and distress is comparable to no other.  Her second love is… all things kink! Bondage of every variety (light to heavy to predicament), mummification, sensory play, corporal punishment, medical, Cock & Ball Torture, Nipple Tortue,  FTT, and select types of worship are activities she highly enjoys.  

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Do not feel limited or intimidated by her kinks and fetishes. Genuine foot worshippers, sensual players, and Goddess pamperers hold a special place in her dark heart. It’s not always about pain. Respectfully suggest a scenario for her to consider, and she will respond if it piques her interest. 

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For more information about Her, how you can contact Her directly & links to learn more about Her visit:   www.Iamyourfetish.com
Booking inquiries: 312-203-4535 / Iamyourfetish@gmail.com

She accepts inquiries via phone or email, but email is always the preferred method of contact. Be sure to include your name, interests, and the day and time you wish to book a session.

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Happy New Year 2017! “A Brunch & Beat” Sunday Jan 15, 2017

pdf-flyer-for-brunch-beat-jan-2017What is a Brunch & Beat you ask?

A Brunch & Beat is a light Brunch followed by various BDSM activities.  This Brunch isn’t your typical Sunday brunch. As it is being hosted in a BDSM Playspace Dungeon.  You can expect southern hospitality, ice-breaker pervy table conversation with an open forum to negotiate play scenes with those in attendance.

In the Spirit of D/s protocol, Dominants will be seated & served first.  Once Dominants have been served & have all their dining needs met, submissives will only then be dismissed to eat.

 

To honor the beginning of a new year; feel free to wear something New Year expressive or bring BDSM toys fitting for the season!

The Brunch menu will be simple:

Water, Coffee, Mimosas paired with Southern Style biscuits and turkey sausage gravy, scrambled eggs, complete with cinnamon rolls as a sweet tooth option.

This event is limited to those that have visited Secret Shangri-La AZ previously, have personally been invited by me & are familiar with house rules.

F.E.E. (Fair Energy Exchange) contribution = $10 per person and / or $20 per poly family.

This event is reserved for the first 11 people to RSVP and/or submit their F.E.E. contribution in advance and YES, toting your own toy bag is strongly encouraged!

All RSVP’s MUST be done via Eventbrite, as this event listed here serves merely as marketing & promotion purposes: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/happy-new-year-2017-a-brunch-beat-tickets-27747489488

 

 

September 10, 2016 CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) FemDom Play Party

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At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them a foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge- SIMPLY PUT!

The males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them.

Rules for this party:

1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.

2. We are all adults at the party , and if someone says no, it means no. It should be respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be OK with wild things happening all around you.

3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food dishes that are easy to serve.

4. Alcohol is allowed however, please drink responsibly.

5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off-street parking is available. Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing. Understand this is a FemDom Play party, not just a CFNM Fetish party. Expect to adhere to Female Dominance & the philosophy of FLR (Female Led Relationships) for the duration of the event. If any of the Ladies determine you are not in adherence & respectful of the FemDom protocol you will be dismissed / instructed to leave the event.

6. NO photos or recording allowed unless an adult model release is signed (model releases will be available for those interested in picture or video taking).

7. NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed. ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated. 8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed upon admittance.

New to Goddess Sadie’s CFNM FemDom Events @ Secret Shangri-La AZ?  Please read blog post on Basic rules & what to expect: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/2015/03/09/basic-rules-what-to-expect-at-a-cfnm-party/.

All RSVP’s must be done via Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cfnm-clothed-female-naked-male-femdom-play-party-tickets-26939131668

NO MONIES ACCEPTED AT THE DOOR, NO EXCEPTIONS!